Autism Awareness: Ten things you should know

Published on Apr 3, 2013

If you know someone with an autism spectrum disorder such as classic autism or Aspergers syndrome, this video will help you understand a little bit more about why we are the way that we are.

I will be making a more detailed and more personal video sometime in the near future, but for now I wanted to make this video as part of autism awareness month (April).

Great job Elijah!!!

By letstalkautism

Different Roads to Learning

I simply love this company, they have provided me with many valuable resources throughout my career.  I wanted to share their “Pick of the Week” as I feel this system would be beneficial for individuals on the spectrum as well as their typically developing siblings.  Whenever incorporating a system of this nature within a household I truly believe it’s best to treat all children similarly, evern though the system may need to be modified to meet the unique needs of each child. 

Here’s a brief description of the OnTrack! Responsibility and Behavior System and a link to discover more.

“Start off the New Year on the right foot with this great tool to keep your family organized: the On Track! Responsibility & Behavior System. Establish clear expectations and logical consequences so that you can reduce the day-to-day arguments and chaos. The On Track! Responsibility and Behavior System incorporates household chores, daily to-do lists, money management, and behavioral issues into life lessons that teach organizational skills, accountability, and self-reliance. Targeted towards children ages 8 and up, the On Track! Responsibility and Behavior System is ideal for middle school-aged kids. Using the system will help instill independence in your child by establishing clear expectations and logical consequences. ”

By letstalkautism

More Than Words

One of the primary goals of parents of children with autism is to help your child communicate with others in a meaningful way.  Research has shown that when parents interact with their children in ways that serve to encourage and support communication, they can make a significant difference in their child’s social and communication development.

The ability to communicate with others is one of our most essential skills, and it’s also one that many of us take for granted. The ability to communicate allows us to connect with others and create new relationships. We can make our wants known, share our thoughts and let other people know how we feel.

Communication begins long before we learn to talk. In the first few months of life, babies show their interest in communicating by listening to the voices of others and and looking  people’s faces when they talk, and then engaging in back-and-forth babbling games with their parents. These exchanges of sounds and smiles between an infant and his caregiver are the baby’s first conversations, even though he or she has never spoken a word.

For children on the Autism Spectrum, communication develops quite differently and more slowly.  The sensory challenges associated with Autism often result in more interest in environmental sounds, like the whirring of a fan or vacuum than in the sound of people talking. Individuals with autism often seem distracted or even seem not to hear what others say. First words are often delayed and, when some children do start talking, their first words can be atypical, or unusual (like numbers) or they may simply echo others.

Research has continually shown that with early speech therapy intervention, there is much that can be done to improve the communication skills of children on the autism spectrum. The important people in the life of a child with autism have the power to make all kinds of learning, including communication, much easier for that child.

 The More Than Words Program focuses on your natural, day-to-day life with your child. You’ll discover how to take everyday activities like meal time, story time and bath time and use them to help your child improve his communication and social skills. And you’ll have fun together while you’re doing it!

I have found that the More Than Words® guidebook and companion DVD has been extremely useful to families of children with autism.  The curriculum outlines straightforward strategies that can be used during daily routines and activities to help children with autism interact more meaningfully with others and experience less frustration.  The More Than Words program can help your child to better understand language, social skills, and the ability to engage in back-and-forth interactions. 

 Research Summary

The More Than Words Program was designed specifically for parents of children ages 5 and under on the autism spectrum. Addressing the unique needs of these children, the program provides parents with the tools, strategies and support they need to help their children reach their full communication potential.

Here are some of the valuable things you’ll learn with the More Than Words Program:

  • How your child learns best and what motivates him to communicate
  • Why your child behaves in certain ways, and what you can do to either increase or reduce those behaviors
  • How to use your knowledge about your child to set realistic goals
  • How to make interactions with your child last longer and be more meaningful
  • Tips for using pictures and print to help your child’s understanding
  • Tips on how to talk so that your child understands you
  • Strategies for developing your child’s play skills
  • Ways to help your child make friends

Here’s an example of a strategy you’ll learn in the program.

“R.O.C.K.™ in your Routine”
Repeat what you say and do
Offer opportunities for your child to take a turn
Cue your child to take his turn; and
Keep it fun! Keep it going!

The R.O.C.K.™ strategy can be used during any activity you do with your child to foster longer, more meaningful interactions and improved social skills.

Like all of Hanen’s programs, More Than Words was developed by expert speech-language pathologists and is grounded in extensive research. The program itself is delivered by Hanen Certified Speech-language pathologists who have completed specialized training from The Hanen Centre.

I highly recommend it!

By letstalkautism

“Why Does My Child Hand Flap and Rock?”

 Self-stimulatory behavior or “stimming” is defined as repetitive movements or vocalizations involving one or more of the individual’s sensory channels.  Stimming is very common in individuals with autism and can take many forms; hand flapping, rocking, finger flicking, spinning and lining up objects, the list goes on and on. 

 I always like to point out that we all engage in self-stimulatory behaviors, especially when we are experiencing emotions such as boredom or excitement.  Tapping a pencil on a desk, rocking your leg or foot when sitting, twirling your hair, these are all self-stimulatory behaviors, however, these forms of self-stimulatory behaviors are typically acceptable to society.  When individuals with autism engage in self-stimulatory behaviors, they often look unusual, and such behaviors can certainly be stigmatizing.  Additionally, even though such behaviors may seem harmless, they can be very detrimental in terms of attentional abilities at home, school, and community settings and can greatly interfere with the learning of new skills.     

 Experts in the field who have studied self-stimulatory behaviors have hypothesized that there are two primary reasons why individuals with autism engage in these unusual repetitive behaviors.  The first theory involves hyposensitivity, that is, the individual’s body craves stimulation.  Basically, the self-stimulatory behavior serves to arouse one’s nervous system and provides the individual with some form of internal satisfaction.  This is thought to be the result of a dysfunctional system in the brain and/or the nervous system.  The second theory involves the opposite function, that is, hypersensitivity.  In this theory, self-stimulatory behaviors are not engaged in to excite one’s nervous system, but to calm one self.  This could be the result of an environment that is over-stimulating and the individual with autism is experiencing sensory overload, therefore engages in self-stimulatory behaviors not to arouse the nervous system, but to block out the over-stimulating environment.    

It might seem logical to simply intervene and try to stop the individual from engaging in the self-stimulatory behavior; however, this strategy is not recommended.  Since the individual is engaging in these behaviors for a reason, if we attempt to interrupt and stop the behavior, it is possible that another behavior, that could possibly be more stigmatizing or even harmful, could develop.    

 If a self-stimulatory behavior interferes with the individual’s ability to pay attention to their environment and participate in important activities, there is a basis for concern.  Intervention should involve looking at the sensory channel that is being stimulated and replacing the self-stimulatory behavior with another more socially acceptable behavior that will provide the same type of reinforcement. 

 Here are some common examples of self-stimulatory behaviors as they relate to sensory channels.

Visual:  staring at lights, repetitive blinking, moving fingers in front of the eyes, hand-flapping

Auditory:  tapping ears, snapping fingers, unusual vocalizations

Tactile:  rubbing the skin with one’s hands or with another object, scratching

Vestibular:  rocking front to back, rocking side-to-side

Taste:  placing body parts or objects in one’s mouth, licking objects

Smell:  smelling objects, sniffing people 

Hyposensitive Child (Under-sensitivity) Hypersensitive Child (Over-sensitivity)
Movement:– The under-sensitive child seeks out movement by running backwards and forwards

– Seeks sensory input

Movement:– The child who screams and refuses to go in an elevator may be over-sensitive to movement. Their behavior reflects their strong desire to avoid movement 
Touch:- The under-sensitive child may become upset when you hug them Touch: – The over-sensitive child may lean against another person 
Vision: – The under-sensitive child may seek sensory input by wiggling his fingers quickly in front of his eyes, flicking the lights on and off, looking at objects from an unusual angle, and watching repeated movements. Vision:– the over-sensitive child may dislike lights and turn them off
Smell:– The under-sensitive child may do odd things such as smelling others. Smell:– The over-sensitive child may be sensitive to strong smells such as cleaning products or perfume.
Taste:– The under-sensitive child may like spicy and salty foods. Parents report their over-sensitive children enjoy strong yeast products such as marmite.

– The child may lick objects.

Taste:The over-sensitive child may be very fussy about food and show a preference for foods with uncomplicated taste. The child may only eat foods that can be presented separately on the plate and refuse to eat dishes that combine vegetables and meat. 

 If self stimulatory behaviors are interfering with your child’s performance, the following tips might prove to be helpful. 

  1.  The first step to reducing a self-stimulatory behavior is to identify what internal or external variable trigger the behavior and determine when and where the behavior is likely to occur. Once the precursor is identified, we can teach the individual an alternative behavior to cope with that situation.
  2.  Replacement Behaviors. Finding acceptable replacement behaviors that are more socially acceptable will provide your child with an alternative to the self stimulatory behavior and receive the sensory input desired.  For example, the individual who likes to jump up and down can have trampoline time.  The individual who likes to hand flap can hold a squishy toy, the individual who chews their shirt and licks objects can be provided with a chew tube or the individual who always hums can listen to music. 
  3. Both alerting and calming activities can provide socially acceptable alternatives to help reduce self-stimulatory behaviors. Alerting and calming activities can support individuals with autism to learn and interact by helping them stay focused, calm and organized.
  4. Individuals who engage in sensory-seeking self-stimulation such as spinning, jumping, etc. can be offered a couple of sensory-based items, such as a squishy ball and Theraputty. Present the individual with one of the items each hour and keep track of the number of self stimulatory behaviors that occur in the following 30 minutes. If the self-stimulatory behaviors decrease, incorporate the sensory items into the daily schedule to help decrease self-stimulatory behaviors.
  5. Permit the individual to engage in self-stimulation for a pre-specified period of time as part of his or her daily schedule. For example, it may be calming for your child to engage in self-stimulatory behavior for the first 10 minutes after arriving back home from school. 
  6.  Reduce the amount of stress the individual experiences in all environments.  Research shows that self-stimulatory behaviors are more likely to occur following circumstances that are stressful.  Attempt to determine what situations are stressful for the individual, and structure the environment in a manner that will reduce stress. 
  7. Consult an Occupational Therapist to help you develop a sensory diet to address the individual’s need for stimulation.  Introducing a sensory diet that involves both calming and alerting activities may help reduce self-stimulatory behaviors. This is not a “diet” related to foods you should serve, but rather it involves an activity plan, designed specifically for your individual child, that provides the sensory input your child needs to be focused and organized.

 It is important to remember that even after a successful behavior reduction program, many individuals may return to their old self-stimulatory behaviors in demanding conditions.  Addressing self-stimulatory behaviors and trying to find appropriate replacements will improve the quality of life for individuals with autism. A reduction in self-stimulatory behaviors will afford individuals with autism greater opportunity to learn new skills without distraction, interact with others without fear of being stigmatized, and in the end, lead more productive and satisfying lives.

By letstalkautism

Thank You for Attending!

Thank you for all who attended our workshop!  It was a great event and  we met so many parents and professionals and we will continue to learn together.  I am thankful that we were able to provide some much needed information that is often difficult to access.  I look forward to the next training workshop and to making the lives of our children and students even better!

By letstalkautism

“My Child Won’t Wear a Coat!”

Transitioning to cold-weather clothing (coats, hats, gloves, etc.) is challenging for many children with autism, especially those who tend to experience more severe sensory issues.  In addition to the sensory insensitivities to certain textures, colors, and fit of clothing, there is another sensory processing channel children with autism often experience difficulty with, temperature regulation. Many individuals with autism are unable to set their internal thermometer at a comfortable level.  Keep in mind that your child might feel hot in cold weather or cold when it is warm.

I am suggesting some strategies that will hopefully make it easier to keep your piece of mind that your child will be safe and can keep your child warm during the cold winter weather.

1) Provide Choices. Have at least two to three options for each article of winter clothing so you can ask your child to pick one of the available choices.  Too many choices may overwhelm your child, so try not to offer a vast array of options.

2) Comfort. Try to buy only the softest, most comfortable clothing available.  Cut out tags if they bother your child.  Have your child go shopping for winter attire with you and let him/her help to choose the clothing if possible.

3) Model Appropriate Behavior. Your child may be more likely to put on a hat, gloves, etc. if he or she sees family members engaging in the same behavior.  You may also want to consider playing “dress up” with paper dolls, baby dolls or a favorite teddy bear using weather-appropriate clothing.

4) Use Visuals.  Create a visual story board showing different types of weather and appropriate clothing for each season.

5) Make Dressing Fun. Try to make dressing for the weather fun by making a game out of it.  For example, see who can get their coat, hat, and gloves on the most quickly.  Allow your child to “win” and make sure there is a favorite reinforce when he or she beats you.

6) Incorporate Dressing Into The Daily Routine.  Approach the process of putting on coats, etc. as just one step in your child’s daily routine, make sure that the dressing step is followed by something your child enjoys such as going outside, eating a snack, listening to music, etc.

7) Address Sensory Issues.  If your child’s hypersensitivities are causing a problem, address this issue with your child’s doctor or your child’s occupational therapist to help address the issue.  Sensory brushing and applying lotion prior to dressing may help to desensitize your child’s skin.  Talk to your child’s occupational therapist for more information on sensory brushing.

8) Watch Winter-Themed Movies.  If your child enjoys movies and DVD’, choose winter-themed movies to create excitement over the change in seasons, pointing out how the characters are appropriately dressed for the weather.

9)  Pick your Battles.  If your child wants to go outside in cold weather without a coat, gloves and hat, allow them this as long as it’s not harmful to their health, even if it makes you uncomfortable thinking about how cold they will be.  Remember, you are not your child and do not experience the world the way he or she does.

10) Be Understanding.  Rather than allowing the issue to become a power struggle between you and your child, let him or her know you understand. You could tell your child that you know the coat is not comfortable or that you realize he or she might not think it’s cold outside.  This statement may help deflect some of the attitude that goes along with your demand that your child wear his or her coat.  Your child may be more likely to accept your rules if he or she feels they are understood and respected.

By letstalkautism

Classic Sign of Autism Appears in Early Infancy


I find this fascinating.  This woman is cooing to young infants.  Infants who later received a diagnosis of autism looked at the woman’s mouth (red line) versus infants who were typically developing (blue line) who looked at the woman’s eyes. 

“Baby boys who will later be diagnosed with autism show a loss of interest in other people’s eyes between 2 and 6 months of age, according to a study published today in Nature.   This is the earliest behavioral marker of autism found to date.

The researchers found that the steeper the decline in eye fixation over the first two years of life, the greater the level of social and communication impairment at 2 years old.

“Now we know that it is possible to develop a quantitative assay in early infancy that is predictive of both autism and level of social disability,” says lead investigator Ami Klin, director of the Marcus Autism Center in Atlanta, Georgia.

The study is the latest in a surge of research on the younger siblings of children with autism, dubbed “baby sibs” who have a one in five chance of developing the disorder.”

To read the full article, go to:

By letstalkautism

Giving Thanks

Turkey Day is quickly approaching!  Personally, this is one of my all time favorite holidays, however, it could easily become chaotic when hosting a Thanksgiving event involving a child with Autism.  Many holidays can lead to sensory overload (for ALL of us) and subsequent meltdowns for a child with autism can readily occur.  I’m hopeful that these tips can make this meaningful holiday the best (and calmest) it can be for the entire family! 

Your Child Comes First. When we plan our Thanksgiving get together, we look forward to seeing relatives from out of town or having a large family get together, but such celebrations may be difficult for many children with autism.  There is a chance that if we do not take certain measures, the otherwise beautiful holiday could end poorly, with both you and your child feeling frustrated at day’s end.  Always think about alternatives should your child become overstimulated or anxious.  Be flexible.  It may be necessary to spend a portion of the day with quiet activities or adjust the length of the event. 

Holiday Decor.  Be a minimalist when it comes to holiday decorations and furniture rearrangement.   The more that your home stays the same, the more your child will continue to feel calm and be able to better tolerate the holiday.

Food.  You know what your child likes to eat.  Make sure there is food available that your child enjoys.  If your child has sensitivities or aversions to certain foods and you aren’t sure what will be available if visiting a family member, pack up some of your child’s favorite foods to take along.  Your child will enjoy the event more when favorite foods are available and you, as the parent, will feel better knowing that your child will eat.

Schedule.  Make a schedule that depicts what will occur on Thanksgiving.  It might be helpful to use pictures, and explain what will take place throughout the day.  Important components might involve what time visitors will be arriving (or what time you will be going to a family member’s home), what time the Thanksgiving meal will be, and what time you plan on arriving back home. If your Thanksgiving involves visiting family members you do not see on a regular basis, consider making a booklet with pictures to let your child know who you will be visiting or who will be coming to your home. Ask family members to send you a digital picture if you don’t have any. Use the pictures in the days leading up to Thanksgiving to help your child be more prepared for the big day.  Any changes in routine should be placed on the schedule and practiced. 

Realistic Expectations. If your child doesn’t sit at the dinner table for long periods of time on a typical day, don’t expect him or her to do so on Thanksgiving.  If there are rules that are different than you have enforced in your own home, make sure you talk to your child before the event or practice expectations. 

Chill Out Space. If you are having family members visit your home for Thanksgiving, make sure your child’s room is off-limits. Conversely, if you are visiting relatives for Thanksgiving, have a conversation with them beforehand and ask to have a bedroom or other quiet area set aside for your child to escape to if needed. Make sure you bring a few favorite toys or books and when you arrive, spend a few minutes with your child in the room, so he feels comfortable and knows where he can go if feeling overwhelmed.

Most importantly, keep in mind that Thanksgiving is a time for giving thanks and appreciating everything we have in our lives.  Make sure you give thanks for your children and family not only on Thanksgiving but everyday throughout the year.   Enjoy your holiday!

By letstalkautism